Stand Up for You!
Standing up for "you" is a necessary part of Loving and Living Your Unique. Do you find yourself giving to other people only to feel like no one is giving back to you? People ask for help and you are more than happy to accommodate them. "How can I help you? Let me help you."
Then we are moved by the deep love that we have for our family and friends. We repeatedly put ourselves "out" to help them. What do we get in return? Maybe a "thank you." Maybe not.
It is difficult for us to believe this harsh truth: not everyone is concerned about OTHERS. That's right. Some people are selfish and self-centered. And worse than that, they could care less about what you think, feel, or believe.
It is time that we turn the tables and take control of our lives! We need to stand up for ourselves.
I spent many years (and I still do it) standing up for those who are too weak to stand up for themselves. This left me open to manipulators, hustlers, and the egocentric. I know it is hard to believe, but some people only care about themselves and getting their own way. The rest of us have to pay.
"...the one quality that authentic people have is their willingness to take responsibility for their lives."
Dr. Cindy Trimm
Taking responsibility for your life means standing up for YOU.
Have you taken the time to define your deepest desires? What is in your dreams?
Not honoring our own desires and living the life we dream about we leave us frustrated and resentful of other people. This resentment will lead us to make irrational decisions that do not align with what we truly desire.
"When you are not whole, you feel insecure, ineffective, unloved, incapable, nervous, suspicious, overwhelmed, unsettled, confused, out of control, needy, isolate, lonely, and a whole host of other undesirable em0tions."
Dr. Cindy Trimm
Did any of those adjectives hit you? If the answer is "Yes," then you owe it to yourself to follow this blog so that you can learn how to stand up for YOU.
You are valuable and you are Unique. The world needs Your Unique now more than ever before. Someone is waiting on you to show them how being authentic is the pathway to freedom!
I am here to support you on your journey. My job is to guide you along this journey. And it is my privilege to do it.
I am cheering you on. Love Your Unique. Live Your Unique.